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		<title>By: Marissa Star</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marissa Star</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam,

You so are the lady of the house! It&#039;s almost a perfect picture:) You impart importance and value to ALL the women you know ... it&#039;s a blessing to be able to view. Thank you for the inspiration to do the same. To influence ... to choose to influence ... to discern how we influence ... so much wisdom in this nugget of truth!

Great Love,
~Ris</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam,</p>
<p>You so are the lady of the house! It&#8217;s almost a perfect picture:) You impart importance and value to ALL the women you know &#8230; it&#8217;s a blessing to be able to view. Thank you for the inspiration to do the same. To influence &#8230; to choose to influence &#8230; to discern how we influence &#8230; so much wisdom in this nugget of truth!</p>
<p>Great Love,<br />
~Ris</p>
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		<title>By: Jan Greenwood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jan Greenwood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 02:07:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Pam - sorry for the late response - reading several at one time.  Lady of the house?  Love that!  So much meaning wrapped in a simple phase.  Blown away by the comment about Hitler and Mother Teresa.  Thank you for encouraging us to use and steward our influence with wisdom.  You are a woman of wisdom and a good example for me to follow.

Love that mother thing...

Jan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Pam &#8211; sorry for the late response &#8211; reading several at one time.  Lady of the house?  Love that!  So much meaning wrapped in a simple phase.  Blown away by the comment about Hitler and Mother Teresa.  Thank you for encouraging us to use and steward our influence with wisdom.  You are a woman of wisdom and a good example for me to follow.</p>
<p>Love that mother thing&#8230;</p>
<p>Jan</p>
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		<title>By: Celeste Barnard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Celeste Barnard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam- this is so true! Whenever I see someone who is always cranky, I wonder if she realizes how it affects others around her. And just in our day to day surroundings, we influence others by our attitudes! Great blog ; )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam- this is so true! Whenever I see someone who is always cranky, I wonder if she realizes how it affects others around her. And just in our day to day surroundings, we influence others by our attitudes! Great blog ; )</p>
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		<title>By: Blynda Lane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blynda Lane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 15:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam, very well said! God sees greatness in each one of us, and it&#039;s what we do with what He&#039;s put in us that really starts to make a difference in people&#039;s lives. Thank you for sharing your heart...you are a great influence!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam, very well said! God sees greatness in each one of us, and it&#8217;s what we do with what He&#8217;s put in us that really starts to make a difference in people&#8217;s lives. Thank you for sharing your heart&#8230;you are a great influence!</p>
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		<title>By: Tomi Jarrell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tomi Jarrell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:29:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam, 
Thank you for such a sweet reminder that no matter what season of life we have influence.  I remember as a nursing mom needing that reassurance in my life.  Now as my influence ripples out I am grateful God cultivated in me the desire to influence for His kingdom at home and in the marketplace!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam,<br />
Thank you for such a sweet reminder that no matter what season of life we have influence.  I remember as a nursing mom needing that reassurance in my life.  Now as my influence ripples out I am grateful God cultivated in me the desire to influence for His kingdom at home and in the marketplace!</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Morning Pam,

This is exactly what I needed to hear today.  I have to say that it truly does make you see the worth of a person.  How much their actions my truly impact another.  Something as simple as a smile has more impact on a person&#039;s day then we think.  I hope that this blog brings out more smiles and truly helps people see their worth.  I hope that you have a blessed day and I look forward to reading more.  I will leave you with a quote that I have posted at my desk...

&quot;A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort&quot;

May God Bless,
Jessica</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Morning Pam,</p>
<p>This is exactly what I needed to hear today.  I have to say that it truly does make you see the worth of a person.  How much their actions my truly impact another.  Something as simple as a smile has more impact on a person&#8217;s day then we think.  I hope that this blog brings out more smiles and truly helps people see their worth.  I hope that you have a blessed day and I look forward to reading more.  I will leave you with a quote that I have posted at my desk&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort&#8221;</p>
<p>May God Bless,<br />
Jessica</p>
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		<title>By: Holly Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 12:50:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great job Pam-finally see a face with a name-wish you had had time for our speaking group-lots of good food there-congrats and keep making a difference with your influence.
Holly Smith</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great job Pam-finally see a face with a name-wish you had had time for our speaking group-lots of good food there-congrats and keep making a difference with your influence.<br />
Holly Smith</p>
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		<title>By: rebecca gates</title>
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		<dc:creator>rebecca gates</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 23:05:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Remember the Fuller Brush man??

Just yesterday while serving in the cafeteria, I made the mistake of trying to be overly helpful to a grumpy and probably bitter woman close to my age. She is one of those who no, matter how hard you try, you can&#039;t break down her tough exterior to win her over, at least not in the 1st 3 hours of trying. Anyway, the walls she put up meant to protect her influenced my attitude towards serving. It stole just a little of my joy. While she was being paid to be there I was volunteering my time and left feeling unappreciated in my efforts to make her day easier. I chose not to let it ruin my day and was able to limit her influence. But that experience, combined with your blog demonstrates to me how easy it is to let my own pain turn me into the kind of person who influences others to believe that they don&#039;t have value. Even if for one &quot;bad day&quot;, or week out of the month. I hope that in the future I will not allow myself to make excuses like these to justify being a bad influencer.

Great blog!!! Great reminder to use my influence to bring life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Remember the Fuller Brush man??</p>
<p>Just yesterday while serving in the cafeteria, I made the mistake of trying to be overly helpful to a grumpy and probably bitter woman close to my age. She is one of those who no, matter how hard you try, you can&#8217;t break down her tough exterior to win her over, at least not in the 1st 3 hours of trying. Anyway, the walls she put up meant to protect her influenced my attitude towards serving. It stole just a little of my joy. While she was being paid to be there I was volunteering my time and left feeling unappreciated in my efforts to make her day easier. I chose not to let it ruin my day and was able to limit her influence. But that experience, combined with your blog demonstrates to me how easy it is to let my own pain turn me into the kind of person who influences others to believe that they don&#8217;t have value. Even if for one &#8220;bad day&#8221;, or week out of the month. I hope that in the future I will not allow myself to make excuses like these to justify being a bad influencer.</p>
<p>Great blog!!! Great reminder to use my influence to bring life.</p>
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		<title>By: marsia</title>
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		<dc:creator>marsia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 20:33:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love that I have influence--and that those little ones who crowd me every time I&#039;m trying to answer the phone are under my influence.  Thank you for encouraging women to step up and not only own their influence, but use it for all that it&#039;s worth. I love that you influence so many of us around you and love seeing that &quot;around you&quot; part getting larger and bigger--means it can only make you louder!!  love you~m</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love that I have influence&#8211;and that those little ones who crowd me every time I&#8217;m trying to answer the phone are under my influence.  Thank you for encouraging women to step up and not only own their influence, but use it for all that it&#8217;s worth. I love that you influence so many of us around you and love seeing that &#8220;around you&#8221; part getting larger and bigger&#8211;means it can only make you louder!!  love you~m</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Shoulders</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Shoulders</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 20:16:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam, 

Loved your piece today.  I remember those days of the long-corded telephones.  I even remember the days of rotary-dial telephones!! 

Thanks for the reminder of how our actions and our words matter and make a difference.  Very well written.  I&#039;m a visual person and I will remember this.  We are all &quot;seed planters&quot; wherever we go.  Thanks for your thoughts.  8-)

Love ya!
Laura</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam, </p>
<p>Loved your piece today.  I remember those days of the long-corded telephones.  I even remember the days of rotary-dial telephones!! </p>
<p>Thanks for the reminder of how our actions and our words matter and make a difference.  Very well written.  I&#8217;m a visual person and I will remember this.  We are all &#8220;seed planters&#8221; wherever we go.  Thanks for your thoughts.  <img src='http://destinyinbloom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Love ya!<br />
Laura</p>
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